Have You Ever Really Loved A Woman

You feel like a fool, you fell for him and he stabbed you in the back.
He said he was different, but he ended up being like every other man (men you know or know about)
He cheated.
However, in his long list of apologies he said “but I love you, it was a mistake“. In your head you’re wondering how can he love you and cheat on you…

Men cheat for various reasons. Sometimes it’s just because they don’t love you, sometimes it’s not that easy. Most of the time you hear men cheat because they are not mature, they don’t respect you, they’re boys.  Men are visual, so eventually they go find something better and all the things that are on the surface, but what about the deep reasons why. The reasons no one ever mention.

Like what I've said in one of my entry here: "If you don’t feel blessed to have her in your life, through the good and the bad times, let her go because she is not your blessing to have."

DON'T CHEAT. Just let her go.

I really like Bryan Adams'song "Have you ever really loved a woman?" it says there how will you know if you really love a woman. The lyrics, the music, I could feel the love there and how genuine and sincere every line that composer did. I hope someday, someones gonna love me that way. below is the lyrics of the song. I can't get enough with that song. I keep on listening to it for a whole day. :)

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"Have You Ever Really Loved A Woman"

To really love a woman 

To understand her - you gotta know her deep inside

Hear every thought - see every dream 

N' give her wings - when she wants to fly 

Then when you find yourself lyin' helpless in her arms

Ya know ya really love a woman 

When you love a woman you tell her

that she's really wanted 

When you love a woman you tell her that she's the one 

Cuz she needs somebody to tell her

that it's gonna last forever 

So tell me have you ever really 

- really really ever loved a woman? 

To really love a woman 

Let her hold you - 

til ya know how she needs to be touched 

You've gotta breathe her - really taste her 

Til you can feel her in your blood 

N' when you can see your unborn children in her eyes 

Ya know ya really love a woman 

When you love a woman 

you tell her that she's really wanted 

When you love a woman you tell her that she's the one

Cuz she needs somebody to tell her

that you'll always be together 

So tell me have you ever really - 

really really ever loved a woman? 

You got to give her some faith - hold her tight

A little tenderness - gotta treat her right 

She will be there for you, takin' good care of you 

Ya really gotta love your woman...